2013 in Retrospect

I seriously haven't written in forever.  Maybe not having internet at my apartment has something to do with it. Sometimes you just can't have it all. :)

I love New Year's Eve and all that it symbolizes.  Even though I love it, welcoming the New Year always makes me kind of nostalgic and sad.  I don't know what it is.  Maybe I don't like change, but I do like new beginnings.  I think that's why I have a hard time staying in one place.  The newness of it all is a fresh adventure and when you start something unfamiliar it's kind of a rush....anyway, moving on.

I wanted to take a moment to look back on 2013 to revisit all the things I've accomplished and all the things I well, haven't.  When you look at the new year it can seem so daunting, then December 31st rolls around and you wonder where the time went.  I normally make a list of everything I want to accomplish.  This year has been different.  I have no goals for this year.  I'm desperately trying to think of some on this New Year's Eve Day, but none are coming to mind.  A lot of the goals I wanted to accomplish in the past seem so empty and sometimes unattainable.  Anybody got anything good they want to accomplish for 2014?  I need some inspiration.

We started out the 2013 year with a bang.  All my family was in New York and we went to downtown Buffalo at the Lafayette Hotel to bring in the New Year James Bond style.  We had a great time and my cousin Tim and I just played all the casino games.  We played with fake money so it wasn't as fun as it could be, but it was fun nonetheless.   I was in New York living with my grandma just blocks away from my Aunts, Uncles, and cousins.  It was wonderful.  I absolutely loved it.  I also had the best job ever which was working at The Orange Cat Coffee Company in Lewiston, NY with some of the most amazing people I've ever come in contact with.  I miss that job so much!  Why did I ever leave?

2013 brought quite a bit of firsts which I hadn't realized till I actually sat down and wrote this blog.  January found me going to my first NHL Hockey game.  The Buffalo Sabres vs. the Boston Bruins.  I'm not a big hockey fan but I really enjoyed it.  I was also able to go on my first sailboat ride on Lake Erie thanks to my Aunt Beverly.  We had a great time even though there was no wind.  I was able to go to Syracuse for the first time to have some great eats at some of the best Diners, Drive-ins, and Dives.  Went to Kitty Hoynes, Pastabilities and Eva's European Sweets for amazing Polish food, which I've never had before.  My Aunt and I also had a great time going to the Rochester Lilac festival which I've never been to before and also touring the NY Finger Lakes with some of the best wineries in the country.  I was also able to go to three of Frank Lloyd Wright's masterpieces.  I was able to go to the Martin House in Buffalo, NY, Kentuck Knob in Pennsylvania, and his most famous private home, Falling Water.  t really has been an amazing year as I look back in retrospect.

One of the highlights of my year was crossing one of my 30 things to do before 30 off of my list.  SKY DIVING!  That was a huge leap for me since I really don't like planes and I'm afraid of heights.  I've been wanting to do this for awhile so when it was finally all said and done I was so happy!  And I even did it without health insurance!  Now that is what you call taking a risk.

During the year 2013 I've seen quite a bit of great concerts as well.   Started the year by seeing Rihanna in Buffalo with my cousin.  We had a good time because we were together and got dancey, but Rihanna was pretty bad.  Come to find out she had the flu and she canceled the three following concerts after Buffalo.  She lip synched the whole time and was 2 hours late getting on stage.  Not the best concert but still.  I went with my cousins to see Maroon 5 and Kelly Clarkson.  Adam Levine running around on stage.  What is not to like? 

Now I'm not trying to be a braggart...so if you want to stop reading now you can.  This blog post is kinda more for me anyways.  SOYEE!

Now there were some big life events for people in my family I love very much.  My cousin Katie got married to her love Tim McFadden.  All the family was up for the wedding and we had a blast.  My brother graduated from Duke Divinity School which was also a huge accomplishment for him.  Some things in the family weren't so happy though.  My Aunt Elaine was diagnosed with colon cancer.  She's doing pretty good, but it's still very scary.  My grandfather also passed away this year.  I didn't really know him well since he decided not to be apart of our lives, but it was still a very sad time

2013 was a big year for babies.  Four of the closest people to me all had babies. 3 of them were their first.  Crazy!  People love to multiply these days.  One of those babies would be my first nephew! The first lil man child in our family since my brother, which was 29 years ago.  His name is Reuben and he's such a cutie!  I really do want to eat him! 

We had some great family vacations this year as well.  Emerald Isle was a great time with all of my VA and NC family for Thanksgiving.  Our usual camping grounds at Cook Forest, PA was another great family vacation with all of my NY family. 2013 was kinda a great year.  I'm hoping 2014 will be just as good!


Cousin Time In Syracuse

First Hockey Game

All the Cousins at my Grandfather's funeral

Ready for Rihanna!

Ernie's Graduation from Duke

OC Crew

Lilac Festival with Auntie

The happy couple and me.

Much needed beach time on Lake Erie

Beyonce!

Me and my Skydiving Instructor before the big jump

My first sailboat ride

Cook Forest with the Family



Falling Water




The Sky is Falling, The Sky is Falling!!!

My Landing with Larry
  I did it.  It's official!  I must say that I'm pretty proud of myself, because I took the jump.  The jump from an aircraft 10,000 feet in the air.  It was probably one of the craziest, nutsiest things I've done, but I think I'd do it again in a heartbeat.  Maybe this time if someone else paid for it since I did drop about $350 bucks on my little adventure, but I'd do it all the same.

It's official!
I've been talking about skydiving for several years now.  That and the fact that I want to move to Australia one of these days.  Australia's still a dream, but skydiving has become a fact.  My friend Wendy and I from the Orange Cat (where I work) were talking about it one day.  She's been and I never had, so I was asking quite a few questions.  At the end of our conversation we decided we were going to do it together.   We registered, paid our $50 deposit and set the date for August 11th.  As the date was approaching, I was getting more and more nervous to the point I couldn't sleep if I started thinking about it before bed.  That dreading feeling you get when you really really really don't want to do something.  My stomach was upset and it just wasn't good.  Wendy called me about a week before our jump to say we'd have to postpone due to money issues.  I was so relieved.  That way if we didn't end up going at all, I would have a decent excuse as to why we didn't go.  I would be out of $50 dollars but so what?  What's $50 to dying?  Dying was the inevitable obviously if I were to sky dive.

Well, Wendy is one of those good friends who will push you do things you don't want to do.  I like that in a friend.  As long as it's reasonable.  Healthy peer pressure.  She urged me to reschedule for a month out so we could get finances settled, yadi yadi yadah.  I
Wendy and I before the jump
emailed the office manager at Frontier Sky Divers to tell him of our change.  I thought they would say we had to do the jump when we were scheduled and there were no other dates available.  He didn't.  He was very nice and was more than happy to have us reschedule.  Crap.  That was my thinking.  I'm really going to have to go through with this. 

I was relieved and kind of perturbed at our rescheduling.  I had 30 things on my list to do before 30 and I really wanted to cross this one off.  I started to pump myself up about it.  Like really getting my mind over matter.  The beginning of this week I was so excited and assured. It really did take the rescheduling to help me overcome my fear.  I went to see my Grandma Brooks Saturday morning in order to wish her well.  Especially since I wasn't going to see her again since skydiving obviously means death.  I'm such a weirdo that way.
We met at the Orange Cat at 7:30 in order to get to Frontier Sky Divers at 8:30.  Grabbed a coffee.  Said our goodbyes to our co-workers, Etc.  When we got there, we were the first ones to arrive and already had our paperwork filled out.  Some of the stuff we signed was like legitimately serious.  I guess it's New York State contract law, or something, but seriously it was talking about death and dismemberment and giving FSD $100,000 if anything were to happen and one of my parties tried to sue.  WHAT?  But I signed it anyway.  Whatev!  Went through the class which I thought would be long and drawn out.  Took about 15 minutes.  I kinda thought it was going to be like Driver's Ed class where they show you all the car wrecks and terrible things that could happen.  Glad, they didn't try to terrify us into oblivion.  I guess they want people to skydive but don't want people to get their driving license.  Who knew? 
First Victim Suiting Up!
Larry and I before the big jump
We stood around and waited for awhile.  Xaviar came out and asked me if I'd be cool going by myself and also being the first jump of the day.  AHHH! WHAT?  I was a little hesitant but then I was like HECK YES!  Why not?  Start everybody off on a good note.  That was what I was telling myself.  It was going to take a long time to get everyone jumped anyways because they had to take their second plane to Buffalo as 4 instructors were jumping into the Buffalo Bills Pre-Game Show.  Pretty cool  Got geared up with my tandem jumping instructor Larry.  He was calm and cool as a cucumber.  I was his 3,997th jump.  Is that not crazy?  I'm happy to say I've jumped once!

Getting into the small plane
Now this airplane we were going up in was like a cracker box.  It could only hold 4 people.  It looked like a crop duster!   Had a big old propeller too.  I was most nervous about the plane because about 5 years ago this same Sky diving place had a crash where the plane broke in half and the pilot was killed.  YIKES!  The thing that was crazy was I wasn't even nervous.  Like not even a little bit.  In the morning when I woke up I was.  I probably had to poop like 6 times because of my nerves but on the plane ride up I was enjoying the gorgeous view of Lake Ontario, Niagara Falls, and the Niagara River.  It wasn't till he opened the side door of the baby plane and my altimeter said 11,000 feet was I
Wendy and Mark boarding the plane
regretting my decision.  We went from completely quiet with a gentle airplane hum to crazy wind and a rushing loudness like I was standing right next to the falls.  My body turned into jello at bit.  As my legs are hanging out the door, Larry says, 1...2...ARCH and we go flying out into the abyss.  And then I had the sensation that I don't think I'll ever have again.  Falling but not falling.  It was crazy.  I didn't get the stomach drop feeling like you do when you're on a roller coaster, but I got the feeling of weightless calm.  The weird thing is I can't really do heights, but this was different.  I was too far away from the ground to even notice how high I really was.  We free fell for about 40 seconds before I pulled the rip cord for my shoot.  We pulled it at 6,000 feet.  It was a little painful when that happened because I was strapped to another human being and I had this harness going in between my thighs.  The loudness ceased and everything was just peaceful and quiet.  Like how the world should be.  It's amazing to see the world from above.  You really notice how entirely round it is.

After the jump!
As we slowly made our way down we did spins and twirls.  I started to get sick a little because well, that's just me.  As the earth drew nearer and nearer I didn't want it to end.  My experience was too short!  It took a total of about 4 minutes to get down when it took 20 minutes for us to get up in the plane.  Crazy how gravity works.  The landing was also a little eh.  We didn't hit the stone pit which I wanted to hit, but we did okay.  I twisted my ankle a bit because when you land in you have to keep your legs out.  It's quite weird.  The moment I was on the ground I wanted to be back up in the air!  Ugh it was such a great time!

Mark and Wendy before their dive
 Wendy and Mark were next.  They did a great job as well and both of their landings were a bit better than mine!  It was a successful ridiculous day.  Can't wait to see how my video turns out and if I can do it again!  I'm just so incredibly happy I didn't die! :)


Successful Jumpers!

Wendy and Jack the instructor

Mark and Larry

The Landing

We're NUTS!






A Mini Purple Vacation

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When you have three days off in a row from work, you go somewhere.  And that's exactly what I did.  Although I really would have liked to have been at work, seeing as work makes you money and money is a necessity to live, but when you have the time, you might as well make the most of it.


Rochester, NY has this little thing called the Lilac Festival mid-May.  Those of us who aren't original Western New Yorker's wouldn't know this, but since I have my connections, I acquired the information about the purple flower inspired festival.  My Aunt and I packed an overnight bag and headed East to partake in the festival.  We hopped on the scenic route ignoring the hideously boring I-90 which sucks money out of you at each exit with their gray and blue toll booths.  After our 2 hour journey we parked and immediately sought out the restrooms.  Not any ordinary restrooms, these portapotties were purple!  I had never seen purple ones before and to my surprise they were much nicer than the regular blue and green.  As we made our way into Highland Park we were greeted with the aroma of hundreds of lilac bushes everywhere.  Lilac purple, white, and dark people bushes could be seen all over the hillside.  Such a gorgeous sight to behold.  As we meandered our way through the windy paths, we had to take pictures!  It was relaxing just to sit on a bench, people watch, and take in the perfumed air.  After about three hours of just chillin in the park we headed for our next destination.

On our way to Geneva, we had to drive through the little town of Canandaigua which resides on the finger lake, Canandaigua (go figure).  It was the cutest picturesque of a town and just driving through I knew that I would love it.  After being rerouted through this awful detour we finally made it to our Days Inn in Geneva.  We wanted to stay at a B&B or even at the Ramada Inn on the lake but they were a little too steep for our one night stay in town.  We changed clothes quickly and set out for Belhurst Castle in order to eat dinner.  This place was mammoth and gorgeous!

Belhurst Castle
 
One of the dining rooms
Wine Spigot
We sat in this little room facing the river.  I ordered the sauteed chicken breast layered with vine ripened tomato relish and pesto cream.  Can we say YUM?  So good!  We took about an hour 1/2 to eat and after dinner we asked our waiter if we could roam around and look at the upstairs of the castle.  He said, "Sure"!  He then handed us two wine glasses and said, "And please help yourself to the wine spigot upstairs that Mrs. Collins had installed between her room and the nursery."  Wait a minute!  This place has a working wine spigot just like a drinking fountain for guests to just come up to and drink their fill?  YES!!!  We took our glasses up the great wooden staircase that was absolutely gorgeous.  When we got to the second floor landing there was about 6 people sitting about.  We knew this was where the wine spigot had to be.

We started chatting it up to the them and after we filled our glass with wine they insisted on giving us a tour of all their rooms.  I think they were all a bit tipsy from the wine spigot due to the fact that they were Canadians and were being ridiculously nice to us!  I'm being a little racist here, but most of the Canadians I've met while living in the Falls have not been the nicest.  We were shown this gorgeous blue room with beautiful wallpaper and a four poster bed.  The second room had this phenomenal fireplace with a huge bed.  They then walked us up to the third floor to their friends room, who looked a little leery about having two strange women run around her bedroom, but she let us all the same.  This room was labeled, "The Study" and had a weird little set of steps that went to no where.  It was really cool.  The one lady insisted on taking our picture on the steps, then on the bed (?).  WEIRD!  She was like, "Oh Joe will not even know what to do with himself when he tell him two chicks were on his bed!"  After the tour we said goodbye to our Canadian friends and went back to the hotel for a good night's sleep.

Rainbow Falls
The next morning we had to stop at Tim Horton's in order to grab breakfast because the selection the Day's Inn offered as continental breakfast was horrible.  Bananas, nasty coffee, and mushy cereal.  Not my type of morning smorgasbord.  We took the beautiful drive on 14 down Seneca Lake to Watkins Glen.  This State Park is absolutely stunning and is a must see for anyone in the area.  It was open to the public in 1863 and features a spectacular narrow gorge where you can hike alongside Glen Creek past the 19 waterfalls.  My favorite falls were Rainbow falls and Cascade Cavern.  So beautiful.



Cascade Cavern
After we hiked all the way to the top we laid down by the small creek just to take in the sights and sounds.  We headed to the restroom, (of course I was with my small-bladdered Aunt) and afterwards started back on the Indian trail which is above the gorge.  After walking it awhile it was kinda of boring just like any other hike in the woods.  My Aunt was on the phone and as we were walking I saw the ground moving.  And it wasn't the ground at all but a 1' 1/2" snake!  My Aunt's foot almost went right down on its head, but I screamed just in time!  We avoided a snake bite and headed back down the glen on the gorge side.  It was much prettier.  We were both super sweaty and super hungry.  I changed in the car since the bathroom floor at the main gate was completely soaked.  The car next to me got quite a show.  While I was in the midst of changing the towel I used to cover the windows fell down.  Whoopsy! 

We were starved and hankering to see some of the local wineries so we got in the car and drove.  We made the bad decision of not driving into Hammondsport to find food, so we were left with a road with no food in sight for miles.  We finally stopped at a little winery on Lake Keuka to see if they knew were to find some food and we were sent to a little deli called, "The Olney Place".  I got the Rebecca sandwich which was absolutely amazing.  It was a take off of a reuben but was 10 times better.  Their homemade cookies they had were also amazing.  It was just a little podunk place but sooo good!  We ate by the water in adirondack chairs.


After that it was on to some much anticipated wine tasting!  We went back to the place that gave us the recommendation of Olney's since my Aunt stole their menu and had to bring it back.  Jon was our little wine enthusiasts who was a bit snooty for my taste.  I did learn some new things though while at Ravine's on Lake Keuka.  They specialized in dry wines which I like much better than the sweet wines.  Jon told us that you can't really mess up a batch of dry wines.  Most wineries will try for a dry, but if it doesn't come out right they'll pump it full of sugar and sell it to you anyway under a different label.  Lesson #1.  Secondly I didn't realize that bottles came in certain shapes for certain wines.  I thought they were just bottled in the bottles that the winery had lying around.  Ravine's was very good, but Jon talked for forever!  We ended up buying two bottles of wine total.  I can't wait to drink these babies while doing a bit of porch sitting.  Jon recommended a couple of other wineries up the way.  So we hopped in Scuttle and started to drive the scenic Route along Keuka lake. 


View from Rooster Hill
 We decided to stop at Rooster Hill which was absolutely gorgeous.  It was 4:15 when we stopped and the tasting room closed at 5.  All we really wanted was a glass of wine and a place to sit out and enjoy the view.  Rooster Hill offered us just that.  Our tasting room lady was Kathy and she was so incredibly nice!  We ended up with a little souvenir glass, and bought two bottles there as well.  She let us sit out on the deck and buy a glass of wine.  It was so nice, and peaceful.  We were the last ones there and enjoyed every minute of it.  After our wine was drunk it was time to hit the road.

We stopped in Canandaigua for a bite to eat.  Another favorite little town of mine nestled quietly on the finger lakes.  We ate at this little place called the Muar House Cafe and enjoyed our little dinner.  We decided to walk onto the dock and just relax although it was covered in Geese poop.  We met this kinda different guy who wouldn't stop talking and kind of interrupted our peace.  So we left.

On our way home we took the scenic route again along route 20, where we didn't realize took us right into scary downtown Buffalo.  At this point we just wanted to be home.  I was driving down Bailey Avenue when this black person dressed all in black just darted out right in front of my car to the other side of the street.  My heart flew up into my throat as I realized I just nearly missed this guy and he could've flew right up on my windshield like in Great Gatsby!  It wasn't until I was getting over my panic from that guy, another man darted across the street right in front of my car.  Did these people in downtown Buffalo have a death wish?!?!  I was freaking out.  Through the course of my drive down Bailey Avenue a total of 4 people darted across the road to get to the other side.  I seriously thought I was playing Frogger.  What is wrong with people?  They see a two-ton vehicle barreling down the road and think that it would be a good idea to hop right in front?  Yes, as a pedestrian you do have the right away, but don't be an idiot about it!  Good thing I just got my brakes checked at the local Good Year tire!

After almost killing people I was sooo ready to be home.  But this weekend was Canadian holiday Victoria Monday and that's when we were driving back.  All the Canadians were itiching to get home just as bad as we were.  The Grand Island bridge was backed up more than usual so we waited in the toll booth line for the state of New York to steal a dollar from me like usual.  We pull up to the booth, hand the money to the collector and proceed to go.  He then says, "Oh no no, sorry, we're shutting down the Southbound bridge.  You have to wait for about 10 minutes till we do that."  I look at my Aunt and laugh.  Of course we will have to wait.  Just our luck.  He then laughs a little to himself and says, "Yeah, sorry.  It sucks to be the first one."  Thank you for that word of encouragement Mr. Toll Booth collector!!!!  Ugh.  We waited for 10 minutes for them to change the North bound bridge from two lanes going North to one lane going north and one going South.  I had never been more ready to see my bed!!!


























30 Things to Do Before 30

As a child I thought 30 was old and forever away.  Now here I am approaching the big 3-0 in only a mere five years.  Five years seems like a long time, but I know it's going to fly! I've  put together a list of some thing's that I just want to get done before August 5, 2017 comes.

*30 Things to Do Before 30

1.  Write a Novel

2.  Live Overseas - CHECK - Italy and England 11'-12'


3.  Attend an NFL Football Game - CHECK - November 15th, Bills vs. Dolphins and December 2nd, Bills vs. Jacksonville


4.  Work in a Coffee shop - CHECK - The Orange Cat Coffee Co. - September 26, 2012

5.  Be in a Flash Dance Mob
6.  Go Parasailing
7.  Take a Hot Air Balloon Ride
8.  See the Northern Lights
9.  Become Fluent in a Foreign Language
10.  Road Trip Across the U.S.A.

11.  Go Sandboarding
12.  Fall in Love
13.  Sky Dive - CHECK - September 15, 2013!  - FRONTIER SKY DIVING NEWFANE, NY
14.  Ride a Camel
15.  Teach English as a Second Language Overseas
16.  White Water Raft the Gauley River - CHECK - Lower Gauley, September 2011

17.  See all 50 States - 26 and counting
18.  Smoke Marijiuana with my best friends 
19.  Fit into a size 6 jeans (My bum is so big this really would be a miracle)
20.  Live in a loft apartment with a view
21.  Go snowboarding down a slope without falling
22.  Go on a Mission's Trip
23.  See Beyonce in Concert -CHECK!!! - July 29, 2013 - Washington D.C.  So close I could touch her! 

24.  Meet someone famous (preferably Meryll Streep or James Marsden)
25.  Be in a Movie - CHECK - Evan Almighty
26.  See a Legitimate Russian Ballet
27.  Attend the Oscars as a "Seat-Filler"  or actually be invited.
28.  Squash grapes in a big barrel with my feet at a vineyard

29.  Run in a race - Mud Run, 5K, Marathon, Color Run - Any will do because I hate to run
30.  Kiss a Real Irishman 
31.  Attend the Holi Color Festival in Utah (This can be done after 30). :)

*Subject to Change